50cents and all that...
1. Dresscodewasn't enforced very well. I don't care about it. If someone wants to look shit that's their problem.
I was NOT annoyed by the guys in suits, because I'm used to high protocol parties where it is very common for the dominant part to wear a suit/evening gown. And I'm very used to (specially) older men wearing suits. When I started in the bdsm community the suit and a play-suitcase was pretty much the standard for dominant men at parties.
I understand if some people don't want to show a lot of skin or not familiar with Fetish attire- BUT I do think some people should have tried harder. It is very easy to dress somehow party-special-fetish like (school girl skirts are available at H&M / wet look leggings too / nice party dresses and net stockings too.) There is NO need to wear everyday streetwear.
A military field uniform isn't really what "Uniform Fetischist" think of when they say Uniform (and I can tell I am one), but packed in the right story I could buy it (for example with field case and "emergency" toys or tapes or whatever) drill sergeant style. that can be quite hot lmfao...
Normal office pants and a high collar blouse on a woman is only ok if she has a human dog on a leash. She literally looks like she has a meeting with HR, not like she is going to a party. For a while I was asking myself if she might belongs to the hotel staff.
There were several people that I personal felt did not add to the flair of a Fetish Party. But as I said I don't really care, if they want to look out of place, whatever. Give them a monocel let them pay more and say these are Voyeur tickets lmfao (I'm joking ok).
But, it is very easy to dress a little more fitting to a PARTY . And I hope some of the people at least try harder next time (or maybe they never come back because they are scared now lol).
2. The Location was great, but I would have wished for bigger dance floors with different kind of music (both where electro that night?). But that's not so important as I did not have time to dance anyway lol.
It was def, a very special place, and I'm glad I had the chance to be there that night.
3. I loved how the play area was behind a glass front. that was VERY cool. and it was so very well equipped. I didn't use it though because we played just wherever we were standing
3. All in all I really, really enjoyed the part and mostly the people at the party. Because that's what makes a party truly great - amazing people.
Soo see you next time