Keep it simple
IMHO it's better to keep things as natural as possible, especially if you meet someone potentially interesting as a person and not only as a body. I tend to be eloquent about what I really enjoy, but it's not a to do list. This kind of talk happens naturally, when you are in the process of flirting, already a bit aroused, and starting to imagine what you and the potential partner might do together soon...at that point it's easy to be explicit, but staying within the context of what is going to happen soon, in the next few hours.During sex, I am explicit if there is something specific that I would like to do with my partner - and I appreciate the same thing from him. It arouses me even more and enhances complicity. I am really open-minded, so I don't have real no-go's and I'm open to anything.
What I really don't like is when a man comes all of a sudden with a "to do" list, even in chat. If you need services, just pay someone going through the whole list!
I need "niveau" in these things.
